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Friday, December 21, 2012

Memorial

This memorial was painted on the wall around the corner from my apartment in Philadelphia.


National tragedy affects us all, reminding us of the unquestioning fragility of life and the importance of not just being alive, but of living life.

So next time you think graffiti artists are just hooligans or riff-raff, remember this precious memorial.

I have been thinking a lot about gun control recently and our Constitutional right to bear arms.  In spite of tragedies like those at Sandy Hook Elementary, I surprise a lot of my friends and peers with my support of the right to bear arms.  I think it is a very important right that lead to the founding of our country when colonists needed to defend themselves against an oppressive government.  Some of my thoughts on the right to bear arms, I think, stem from my unique social and religious background.  

I wrote about it here:

http://scatterthesunshine.blogspot.com/2012/12/mormonism-and-guns.html

Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Home, Homies & Henry


In other words, Thanksgiving at Casa Price.

I have LITERALLY not had Thanksgiving at home with my parents for…wait for it…SEVEN YEARS!  And when I do come home for the holidays I rarely get to spend time with my old friends.  But this jolly year, I got to do both!

I had a whirlwind smoothie outing with some of my best high school lady friends, whom I hadn’t seen forever.  So nice to hear about all of the great things they are doing in this world.

I also got to play a round of disc golf with a super cool guy that I grew up with.  He has also really made a name for himself and you should watch this film that he worked on: Coyote



 Home was very homey :) Predicatably enough, I was greeted with this bumper sticker:


And this button:

And this:


But at least they are equal opportunity:

 
Vote For Pedro!!  HAHA

Haha!  My mom, forlorn, walked to the dinner table one night and bemoaned, "Dad said its time to take the Romney sticker off the car."  Well, you certainly can't call them luke-warm!  My family is the greatest.




Thanksgiving Day began very early in the morning with a drive down to Dana Point for the Turkey Trot.  Of course, our family sported Team Henry jerseys (more on Henry to follow) and we ran, ran, ran as a family.  It was a beautiful morning and the ocean view was spectacular.


Here is me finishing with my mom who ran the ENTIRE 5k without stopping.  It was my warm down after the 10k with Dad & Mike...mostly just to alleviate guilt for the extra pie I knew I would eat, and also to be there to cheer on my mom who is a new runner!  Or a new wogger, as we call her, since she prefers workouts that combine walking and jogging- haha!


And now, Henry; formerly known as Henrietta.  My parents, reliable local-vores, had the unique idea to raise their own turkey for Thanksgiving!  She was named Henrietta, only to later find out that she was a he.  And thus the Team Henry running crew was born, pounding the pavement in honor of the pet that became the founder of our feast.


I thought it would be difficult to eat family-friend Henry.  But honestly, with all my talk about animal rights and the prevention of cruelty to animals and humane treatment of animals, I struggled to see one inhumane thing about Henry’s life.  She was raised among friends, had a lovely yard to roam in, spent her days in the sun, she was fed well, and humanely butchered by professionals when her time had come.  And frankly (she?) he was delicious.

[BEFORE]

 [AFTER]

Like, the best turkey ever.  And the largest!  Clearly she had been enjoyed to live a longer, fuller life than the average-sized bird of her breed, since she came in at a whopping 26 pounds, not including giblets, etc.  Yep, barely fit in the oven!

Mmmmm…Henry…

Dad honored the dear bird with a t-shirt from Mike & Chelsie that is probably wholly inappropriate, but hey, lots a people at the Farmer's Market gave him compliments!


 
Happy Thanksgiving!

Monday, November 12, 2012

Hurricane Sandy



Or, as a few of the locals on Staten Island, New York, are calling it, “Tsunami Sandy.”  According to one man whose home I worked on this weekend, giant waves of ocean water suddenly overtook his street “like a river” immediately covering everything with 3 feet of water.  Subsequent waves brought the water level on his street up to 5 ½ feet.

He showed us a video he had taken on his phone of his now ruined car, still running, barely visible  under the water flooding his street.

He told us, “I swam from my car to the house with my two little kids on my back.  At first it was easy, but then after the second wave it was hard to swim.  I had to go back to the car for my third son and all I could do was drag him back to the house through the water.”

This family had to escape out the windows because the water pressure prevented them from opening their car doors. 

“They told us to prepare for the wind,” he said, “But no one told us to prepare for so much water.”

He told us about all of the people who died in a nearby school-turned-shelter and how FEMA and the police were keeping the true death toll under wraps.  We admired his lovely kitchen as we ripped drywall out of his once beautiful home, floorboards soggy beneath our feet.

My congregation, comprised of young, single adult members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints living in Philadelphia, we anxious to help make a dent in the staggering cleanup efforts still ongoing on Staten Island.

We trudged along the filthy streets, hauling shovels and empty paint buckets while wearing our bright yellow vests, as Humvees rolled past and helicopters flew overhead.  This sparked more that one distasteful post-apocalyptic zombie joke. 

Military personnel, FEMA representatives, and countless other volunteer workers dotted the neighborhood, carrying water-damaged debris out into the streets as garbage trucks, front loaders, and Bob Cats ran back and forth and back and forth, clearing and re-clearing the muddy roads of rotting wood, twisted metal, crumbling drywall, and garbage.

[Me, above]

One old woman called us all “angels” as we stripped what was left of her home to the bare frame.

Here’s some more of what we saw:


 One mile from the shore, this boat somehow landed here, with holes punched all through it and its windows shattered.

 The streets, full of destroyed appliances being pushed around by heavy machinery


Talk about a crack in the foundation...



 Getting a snack from the Red Cross Disaster Relief.



Here’s our group, at the end of a back-breaking day, feeling grateful for what we have, grateful for our ability to serve, and with the tune of the hymn “Have I Done Any Good in the World Today” resonating from our hearts and lips.



As we left, parents encouraged their children to hand out food and juice boxes to the volunteers.  It was hard to see the damage done to people’s property and lives, but it was so good to see the strength and unity that the community showed.

It was a vivid reminder that above almost any attribute, service, to me, seems to be the thing that characterized the Savior’s ministry most accurately.

“…when ye are in the service of your fellow beings ye are only in the service of your God.” Mosiah 2:17


[photos by the GOES 13 Satellite, Me, Becky M., and random passers by]

[Originally published at http://scatterthesunshine.blogspot.com/]

Thursday, October 25, 2012

Street Art Galore

Thank goodness for leisurely Sunday walks, especially when I bring my camera with me!

Here's some very VERY local original Philadelphia street art which, if you ask me, is the best kind of street art there is:
 First, a little wheatpaste here^ in honor of the upcoming election.  To me, it says, I HOPE you CHANGE your underwear :)


 I'm a NUT about recycling, so I'm obsessed with this^

And below, this one is for my Mom...
 This is a bike rack- SO COOL!




Honestly, these dangling shoes could pass for a Calder mobile!






Friday, October 19, 2012

Free Museum Day!

FREE MUSEUM DAY!

I had the great fortune of being informed of FREE MUSEUM DAY- or, more officially, Smithsonian Magazine Museum Day.  And considering I live in a city packed full of amazing museums, I figured this was my chance to see some cool old stuff!

The plan was to go to the Penn Museum (at the beautiful ivy and gargoyle-adorned University of Pennsylvania), then on to the Institute of Contemporary Art, and finally the Natural Science Museum.

Unfortunately, nearly the entire day was spent at the Penn Museum…BECAUSE IT WAS GREAT!

We just happened to be approached by an archaeologist who was going to be giving a tour of the Canaan section in 30 minutes and wanted to practice on us- hello, private tour!

Here’s some things we saw:
 That's the entrance of the Penn Museum

 Oil lamps!  This reminded me of Israel!  Annie & I then talked about the New Testament parable of the Ten Virgins :)

 I would make a very nice sculpture

 You KNOW I have a HUGE place in my heart for Egyptology :D

 Annie asking, "What's up with your casual posture, bro?"

 This is AMAZING and I want this.  I already asked and the DC Temple promised that they will let me wear this when I get married ;)  Its the golden headdress of the Iraqi queen Puabi- epic- also kinda Princess Leia, just sayin...

This little gem is from the special MAYA 2012 exhibit.  He was found in modern Honduras and depicts the founder of the Copan dynasty, K'inich Yax K'uk' Mo'.  I think his hat and glasses are very forward-thinking.

Yay for free learning & exploring!

Tuesday, October 2, 2012

Socialism...its baaa-aaack! And mini Tax & Slander lessons

Election season is upon us and I have recently been thinking about...Socialism.  Don't cry, Dad!  Hear me out!  The concept just seems to have been cropping up all around me.  From this tag on a K-rail in my neighborhood:


To this flyer in my apartment lobby:


First, a tiny note on Communism vs. Socialism.  I found this quote helpful to illustrate one of the 2 ideas' practical differences:


"Socialism preaches: 'From each according to his ability, to each according to his deeds.' Communism preaches: 'From each according to his ability, to each according to his needs.'"


As I understand it, Socialism is more the economic system focusing on the re-distribution of wealth to ensure everyone equally benefits from the industry of all; whereas Communism is the whole political system dedicated to implementing socialist policies in more sectors than just the economy.  Regardless, one is the outgrowth of the other and, even though its wrong, most people seem to use the terms interchangeably. 

Frankly, I'm not sure the Philly Socialists know what either mean.  They got it right in their amateur video that the idea is to make sure the needs of the poor and working-class majority has their basic needs, but I feel like their programming could be accomplished easier and more effectively through a basic 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization.  The tax code permits organizations dedicated to serving charitable purpose to engage in their operations virtually tax-free and to allow donors to write off their donations.  This seems to be all they need considering the Philly Socialists only advertise that they engage in giving food to the poor and teaching English to immigrants without "asking you to sign petitions or contact your local congressman."  Doesn't that just sound like a regular old charity to you?  So why the Socialist title?  My guess is because its run by hipsters who want to sound edgy.  Come on, with a motto like "to struggle, to win" it seems to me like they are just out there to protest for the sake of protesting, and not for the sake of any true political feelings.  After all, it's just fun to be angry and make the News and hey, maybe feed a few homeless people and sound cool at parties.  (Too harsh??)

Another, perhaps wiser, action would be for these hipsters to organize as a 501(c)(4) because then they could at least engage in lobbying while still enjoying most of the tax benefits of a (c)(3).  If they really want some sort of political message out there in order to further their cause, then I think they should consider organizing more than just the occasional free lunch line, because that is not going to support their economic/political cause any more than free samples of cheese dip at Wegman's solves the economic crisis.  But maybe that's just my realism showing; sorry.

Regardless, I looked them up on my secret nonprofit database (its not that secret, its just guidestar.org and its how I found out how much I could make if I became the Chief Defender at my current workplace, muahaha) and they were not listed, which leads me to believe that they are not organized as a nonprofit organization at all.  {Although they do have a ".org" web address, so they must be heading in the right direction...they just have a serious transparency problem, which is death in the nonprofit sector.  But I digress...}  So what are they?  Dare I say a dirty, rotten, entitled, money-grubbing, soul-stealing CORPORATION?!?  Nah.  Its probably just some bored rich kids who get together trying to save the world and stick it to the 2-party system.

That I can respect- sticking it to the 2-party system.  (I could right a novel on that, so I'll spare you.)  Also I do think its interesting that socialism is coming back into vogue.  In an era where we are embracing more and more formerly ostracized groups, it is only logical to think that outsider political groups should also be gaining some serious ground in a time where minority groups (whether you're talking about race, sexual orientation, religion or the lack thereof, income levels, national origin, etc.) seem to be achieving new-found respect.

As our friendly neighborhood street artist put it (see above), socialism is not so bad.  At least my generation thinks so.  We are alien to the now ridiculed "House Un-American Activities Committee" which surfaced in 1947.  McCarthyism is, thankfully, a distant memory.  Communists were once hunted like terrorists are now, but we don't like to think of our own government sniffing out and blacklisting our fellow Americans because of their political views.  Because what is truly more "Un-American" than stomping on someone's freedom of belief, speech, and expression?  In my opinion, not much.  And that, in hindsight, is what was truly scary about The Red Scare.

Funny enough (and its sad that I just know this off the top of my head...) but --to this day-- in Pennsylvania, one of the very narrow categories of Slander Per Se, where a Plaintiff accusing someone of slandering them does NOT have to prove the regular slander element of malice (ie, they don't have to prove in court that the slanderer said whatever they said with a bad motive, they just have to prove that the slanderer said it), is if one is accused of being a member of the Communist Party.

In other words, its FAR easier to win a slander suit if someone accuses you of being a Communist than if they accuse you of just about anything else.  Ha!  Go figure!  And what if being accused of being a member of the Republican Party constituted Slander Per Se?!  Me thinks there would be A LOT of settlement dollars floating around.

So in this time of embracing the minority, it seems like even Pew Polls are picking up a growing trend of warm fuzzies towards Socialism, at least from registered Democrats, who are viewing the term "socialism" as more positive than before, and now viewing it nearly as positively as they view the term "capitalism."

So when Republican grandmothers across the nation are shouting at Fox News that, "Obama is a Socialist!" maybe they're not so delusional after all, since it appears that Socialism IS a growing trend among liberally-minded individuals.  But even if you sign onto the extremist view that President Obama is attempting to introduce socialism into our country, do you really have much to worry about?  In my opinion, no, I cannot foresee a Red Revolution on the horizon.  And I think healthcare reform is a good thing But with many of my peers who have great educations under their belts, great educational debt weighing on their backs, and NO JOBS in a tanked economical climate that is barely budging...its no wonder why people are looking towards greater government involvement in the economic and jobs market in a way that they perceive to be more fair.  Honestly, ANYTHING would seem more fair than being $500,000 in debt for student loans and having to watch Oprah marathons all day because no one will hire you, despite your brilliance.

In other words, I think the Socialist hype is a sign of economic unrest by those who suddenly find that, despite their best efforts to be top dog, they are now mere proletarians.  And even a lowly prole wants a piece of the pie.  So in our new low class state of being, we find the need to fight against the 1% (who we secretly wish we were) and fight for power to the lower classes (which we now are a part of).


So best of luck, Philly Socialists.  You go and stick it to the man while trying your best to benefit a few need people in our community- heaven knows the help is needed.  Just next time, get a tax attorney and business planner to do some pro bono work on your behalf and maybe consider not having everyone on your video read so obviously from a poster behind the camera.  Also try writing a mission statement and/or motto that will actually operate to further the cause that you are apparently so adamant about...or at least have a meeting to get together what your cause is- I recommend inviting Wikipedia to that meeting.  Also, remember that your parents are probably 1%ers, so try not to be too mad at them.

(Also published on Scatter Sunshine)